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Getting On Santa’s ‘Naughty List’ With The Art Of Sexy Holiday Flirting


The Holidays are a perfect time for sexy flirting. Whether single or partnered, you can have fun getting on Santa’s ‘naughty’ list by performing the very effective art of sexy flirting.

Men love flirty gestures. They feel admired and get the validation they need to approach you. Don’t think that flirting is just for the singles, though. It adds so much excitement and pleasure for partners, as well. It’s easy for couples to get into a rut and forget the fun and spicy side of their relationship, especially when trying to raise a family and hold down challenging careers. Flirting, smiling, being daring and trying something new releases some wonderful ‘happy hormones’ and can have some very positive and amazing results, so don’t hold back.

Flirting, however, takes guts and confidence. It means you have to be light-hearted and open to fun and new experiences. Therefore, you may get nervous because you are stepping out of your routine and comfort zone. That’s OK, just take a few deep breaths and do it anyway. Trust me, your efforts will be well worth it.

For a quick and easy boost to your confidence, especially if you are painfully shy, check out my very active and fun guided meditation called Sexy Irresistible YOU, which is currently 50% off during our holiday special. Doing so will activate the powerful and magnificent sexy YOU!

Here are some hot flirting tips to ramp up your sex appeal – Ooh La La!!

Tamara’s Hot Flirty Holiday Tips For Singles:
  • At a gathering, smile at a guy that’s caught your eye from across the room, look away then smile at him again. He’ll keep his eyes glued onto you, for sure! Keep it up until he walks over to you.
  • Men are visual and love the adventure of surprise, so write a question on a cocktail napkin and slide it across the table or bar right to him. Make sure you’re smiling while doing this. Extra brownie points for making the gutsy move of winking, as well. What you write could be as simple as, “Nice shirt you’re wearing!”
  • This one definitely takes guts, but it’s very effective. Let your admiration show by using your eyes to take-in every inch of that hunk you’d like to meet from across the room. Start with their feet moving up very slowly and deliberately until you reach their eyes, at which point you smile, nod your head in approval, and give him a ‘thumbs up.’ Let him know that you like what you see. Then, count the seconds it takes for him to introduce himself to you.
  • Can’t go quite that bold, yet? Try this one then. Wherever you’re sitting, cross your legs and make sure the foot of your leg on top is pointed in the direction of that man you’re interested in meeting. Bob your foot up and down while looking in his direction. Let him know that you are “pointing” at him.
  • Spice things up and wear red. There are many shades of red, so pick one that’s perfect for your skin tone. Again, men are visual. Studies show that men find women who wear red as very attractive. Also, show a little skin with a scooped or ‘V’ neckline. Wear a dress and show your legs. Come on! It’s the Holidays, so wear something festive and slightly revealing! Don’t go too far, though. Stay away from the slutty look, unless you’re only interested in a one-night hookup.
Tamara’s Hot Flirty Holiday Tips For Couples:
  • During holiday parties, show up separately and pretend you don’t know each other. Then, pick each other up. Have fun using pick-up lines like, “Have we met before?” or “What’s your sign?”
  • Imagine your partner as your favorite dessert. While licking your lips, say to him something like, “Later, I’m going to devour you like my favorite Tiramisu!” Scrumptious!
  • At a family gathering or office party, get the juices flowing by telling your partner that you bought him a “surprise” or “naughty” gift that has to be opened in private…”later”. Wink, wink 😉
  • Tell your handsome hunk how delicious he looks, how sexy he is and how he turns you on. More winking!
  • Be alluring by playing with your hair or jewelry while listening intently to your guy.
  • Get an App for couples. Go ahead and Google “Apps for lovers” and see what’s out there for sexy and fun messaging with your special someone.
  • Ask questions you don’t normally ask, such as, “What’s your wildest fantasy? I’d like to help you fulfill it.”
  • Get ‘in the mood’ by giving a foot rub to your partner. This lowers the energy out of that stinkin’ thinkin’ head (the upper one). At the same time, tell him how much he turns you on or what you plan to do to him after the foot rub. Anticipation is a great way to get the energy flowing in the ‘right’ places.

This holiday, be sugar and spice and everything nice. Practice the art of sexy flirting to make sure you make Santa’s ‘Naughty List’ and have fun while doing it!!

 

 

 

13 Hot Flirting Tips: Making This Summer Sexy Fun

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Summer is a perfect time for sexy, flirty fun. Watch out men because you won’t be able to resist women who are performing the very effective art of sexy flirting!!

Men love flirty gestures. They feel admired and get the validation they need to approach you. Don’t think for a second that flirting is just for the singles, though. It adds so much excitement and pleasure for partners, too. It’s easy for couples to get into a rut and forget the fun and spicy side of their relationship, especially when trying to raise a family and hold down challenging careers.

Flirting, smiling, being daring and trying something new releases ‘happy hormones’, creating positive results, so don’t hold back.

Flirting, however, takes guts and confidence. It requires you to be light-hearted and open to new experiences. You may feel nervous because you are stepping out of your routine and comfort zone. That’s OK, just take a few deep breaths and do it anyway. Trust me, your efforts will be well worth it.

For a quick and easy boost to your confidence, especially if you are painfully shy, going on a first date, getting over a divorce, or just plain rusty in the flirting department, check out my very upbeat-guided meditation called Sexy Irresistible YOU. Doing so will release ‘happy hormones’, which feels great and activates your magnificent sexy YOU!.

Here are some flirting tips to ramp up your sex appeal – Ooh La La!!

Tamara’s Hot Summer Flirty Tips For Couples:

  1. Next time you are invited to a BBQ or summer party, show up separately and pretend you don’t know each other. Then, pick each other up. Have fun using pick-up lines like, “Have we met before?” or “What’s your sign?” Laugh and enjoy each other’s company.
  1. Imagine your partner as your favorite dessert. While licking your lips, say to him something like, “Later, I’m going to devour you like my favorite Hot Fudge Sundae!” Scrumptious!
  1. Before coming home from work, get the juices flowing by calling or texting your guy and telling him that you bought “a surprise” or “a naughty gift” that has to be opened… “later.” Wink, wink. Surprise him with a sex toy, edible underwear or a can of whipped cream.
  1. Tell your handsome hunk how delicious he looks, how sexy he is and how he turns you on. More winking!
  1. Be alluring by playing with your jewelry or hair while listening intently to your guy as he’s talking to you.
  1. Get an App for couples. Go ahead and Google “Apps for lovers” and see what’s out there for sexy and fun messaging with your special someone.
  1. Ask questions you don’t normally ask, such as, “What’s your wildest fantasy? I’d like to help you fulfill it.”
  1. Get ‘in the mood’ by giving him a foot rub. This will help lower the energy out of his stinkin’ thinkin’ head (the upper one). At the same time, tell him how much he turns you on or what you plan to do to him after the foot rub. Anticipation is a great way to get the energy flowing in the ‘right’ places.

Tamara’s Hot Summer Flirty Tips For Singles:

  1. At a summer gathering, smile at a guy that’s caught your eye from across the room (or patio), look away then smile at him again. He’ll keep his eyes glued onto you for sure! Keep it up until he walks over to you.
  1. Remember, men are visual and love the adventure of surprise, so on your next date, write a comment on a cocktail napkin and slide it across the table or bar counter right over to him. Make sure you’re smiling while doing this. Extra brownie points for making the gutsy move of winking, as well. What you write could be as simple as, “Nice shirt you’re wearing!” Or, “I’m having fun.”
  1. This one definitely takes guts, but it’s very effective. Let your admiration show by using your eyes to take-in every inch of that hunk you’d like to meet from across the room. With a slight smile and a slow and deliberate gaze, look at his his feet, then knees, slowly moving up to his belly, chest, throat, and finally, his eyes. Once your eyes have locked, broaden your smile, nod your head in approval, and give him a ‘thumbs up’. There will be no doubt in his mind that you like what you see. Not being able to resist you, count the seconds it takes for him to walk over and introduce himself to you.
  1. Can’t go quite that bold, yet? No problem, try this one. Wherever you’re sitting, cross your legs and make sure the foot of your top leg is pointed in the direction of the man you’d like to meet. Bob that foot up and down in his direction, which is letting him know that you are “pointing” at him. His subconscious mind will get the message that you are interested in him.
  1. Spice things up and wear red. There are many shades of red, so pick one that’s perfect for your skin tone. Again, men are visual. Studies show that men find women who wear red as very attractive. Also, show a little skin with a scooped or ‘V’ neckline. Wear a dress and show your legs. Come on! It’s summer, so wear something festive and slightly revealing! Don’t go too far, though. Stay away from that slutty look, unless you’re only interested in a one-night hookup.

This summer, be sizzling and hot by practicing the art of sexy flirting. By all means, have fun while doing it!!

Care-free Flirting This Holiday

tamara holidayI’ve been having fun this month giving tips on the subject of Holiday Flirting. The reason why I’ve devoted the month of December to flirting is because it’s one of those things people do when they are being 100% themselves, which is potent and powerful.

Did you know that you were born this way? Just notice how children don’t question who they are. They just are who they are. Children are great at flirting with life. They flirt with people and animals or whoever their playmates happen to be. That’s because they accept and love who they are. Of course, I’m not talking about sexual activity. I’m talking about the playful, light and self-loving energy of flirting.

To easily get you into a fun loving and flirty mood, check out my Irresistible Sexy You meditation audio/video. It’s a quick and effective way to boost your confidence while having fun at the same time.

Enjoy this Holiday by going back to being a kid again. Love and accept yourself and your life exactly the way it is now. Flirt with life by being silly, having fun and accepting and loving beautiful you! Why not spend the rest of the Holidays flirting with joy and bliss?!

Tamara’s Tip for Holiday Fun:

Decide that you’re going to have fun. Flirt with that special someone or even a family member, as if to say, I’m interested and curious about you. Ask questions that you’ve never asked them before. Not only will you be amazed at what stories of adventures you will hear but you’ll also be a spark of joy to them.

Here are some ideas on what to ask:

  • What was your first job?
  • Who was your first crush?
  • What did you want to be when you were growing up?
  • What’s your favorite thing about the Holidays?
  • What’s on your bucket list?

Tamara’s Holiday Message:

Now, it’s my turn to flirt with you by saying how beautiful I think you are, how much joy you have brought to me and how happy I am to have you in my community of friends, clients and followers. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for being wonderful you.

Wishing you a Holiday filled with warmth, wonder and tons of love, love, love,

Tamara
xoxo

Flirt Like Wonder Woman and WHAM! You’ve Got His Attention

wonder womanFlirting like Wonder Woman doesn’t mean you have to dress in a strapless and skimpy outfit with a cape and red boots, however, using her confidence is an effective and fun way to get that hunk-of-a-man’s attention at your next Holiday party. Studies are showing that just standing in a ‘power pose’ for 2 full minutes while smiling is enough to boost your confidence, even for the shyest person. Social Psychologist, Amy Cudding has been researching body language and it’s effect on hormonal levels in the brain. She reports,

Body language affects how others see us, but it may also change how we see ourselves. Standing in a posture of confidence, even when we don’t feel confident — can affect testosterone and cortisol levels in the brain, and might even have an impact on our chances for success.”

Therefore, you have no excuses for flirting shamelessly at your next party or coffee run at Starbucks. But first, in the privacy of your home, do Tamara’s Tip For Confidence (see below) then go out and show your stuff. If you need some flirting ideas, check out last week’s blog called Forget The Nice, Get Naughty! 13 Hot Flirting Secrets.

Tamara’s Tip For Confidence – ‘WHAM!’

Before leaving home to go on your flirting adventure, try this quick and easy tip for building up your confidence muscle:

Stand up with your feet wider than shoulder distance apart. Stand akimbo by resting your hands on your hips. Puff out your chest and lower your shoulders. Place a pencil between your teeth to keep you smiling. Hold this pose for a total of 2 minutes with relaxed breath while repeating (in your head) this ‘WHAM’ mantra at least 20 times:

I Am:

  • …Wonderful
  • …Hot
  • …Alluring
  • …Magnificent

Stay tuned for Tamara’s YouTube video tip on the Flirt Like Wonder Woman Technique (Subscribe to Tamara’s YouTube Channel) and see how easy it is to boost your self-esteem and get that juicy-looking guy’s attention. Who knows, maybe he’ll become your hero!