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Getting On Santa’s ‘Naughty List’ With The Art Of Sexy Holiday Flirting

The Holidays are a perfect time for sexy flirting. Whether single or partnered, you can have fun getting on Santa’s ‘naughty’ list by performing the very effective art of sexy flirting.

Men love flirty gestures. They feel admired and get the validation they need to approach you. Don’t think that flirting is just for the singles, though. It adds so much excitement and pleasure for partners, as well. It’s easy for couples to get into a rut and forget the fun and spicy side of their relationship, especially when trying to raise a family and hold down challenging careers. Flirting, smiling, being daring and trying something new releases some wonderful ‘happy hormones’ and can have some very positive and amazing results, so don’t hold back.

Flirting, however, takes guts and confidence. It means you have to be light-hearted and open to fun and new experiences. Therefore, you may get nervous because you are stepping out of your routine and comfort zone. That’s OK, just take a few deep breaths and do it anyway. Trust me, your efforts will be well worth it.

For a quick and easy boost to your confidence, especially if you are painfully shy, check out my very active and fun guided meditation called Sexy Irresistible YOU, which is currently 50% off during our holiday special. Doing so will activate the powerful and magnificent sexy YOU!

Here are some hot flirting tips to ramp up your sex appeal – Ooh La La!!

Tamara’s Hot Flirty Holiday Tips For Singles:
  • At a gathering, smile at a guy that’s caught your eye from across the room, look away then smile at him again. He’ll keep his eyes glued onto you, for sure! Keep it up until he walks over to you.
  • Men are visual and love the adventure of surprise, so write a question on a cocktail napkin and slide it across the table or bar right to him. Make sure you’re smiling while doing this. Extra brownie points for making the gutsy move of winking, as well. What you write could be as simple as, “Nice shirt you’re wearing!”
  • This one definitely takes guts, but it’s very effective. Let your admiration show by using your eyes to take-in every inch of that hunk you’d like to meet from across the room. Start with their feet moving up very slowly and deliberately until you reach their eyes, at which point you smile, nod your head in approval, and give him a ‘thumbs up.’ Let him know that you like what you see. Then, count the seconds it takes for him to introduce himself to you.
  • Can’t go quite that bold, yet? Try this one then. Wherever you’re sitting, cross your legs and make sure the foot of your leg on top is pointed in the direction of that man you’re interested in meeting. Bob your foot up and down while looking in his direction. Let him know that you are “pointing” at him.
  • Spice things up and wear red. There are many shades of red, so pick one that’s perfect for your skin tone. Again, men are visual. Studies show that men find women who wear red as very attractive. Also, show a little skin with a scooped or ‘V’ neckline. Wear a dress and show your legs. Come on! It’s the Holidays, so wear something festive and slightly revealing! Don’t go too far, though. Stay away from the slutty look, unless you’re only interested in a one-night hookup.
Tamara’s Hot Flirty Holiday Tips For Couples:
  • During holiday parties, show up separately and pretend you don’t know each other. Then, pick each other up. Have fun using pick-up lines like, “Have we met before?” or “What’s your sign?”
  • Imagine your partner as your favorite dessert. While licking your lips, say to him something like, “Later, I’m going to devour you like my favorite Tiramisu!” Scrumptious!
  • At a family gathering or office party, get the juices flowing by telling your partner that you bought him a “surprise” or “naughty” gift that has to be opened in private…”later”. Wink, wink 😉
  • Tell your handsome hunk how delicious he looks, how sexy he is and how he turns you on. More winking!
  • Be alluring by playing with your hair or jewelry while listening intently to your guy.
  • Get an App for couples. Go ahead and Google “Apps for lovers” and see what’s out there for sexy and fun messaging with your special someone.
  • Ask questions you don’t normally ask, such as, “What’s your wildest fantasy? I’d like to help you fulfill it.”
  • Get ‘in the mood’ by giving a foot rub to your partner. This lowers the energy out of that stinkin’ thinkin’ head (the upper one). At the same time, tell him how much he turns you on or what you plan to do to him after the foot rub. Anticipation is a great way to get the energy flowing in the ‘right’ places.

This holiday, be sugar and spice and everything nice. Practice the art of sexy flirting to make sure you make Santa’s ‘Naughty List’ and have fun while doing it!!




21 Days to Self Love Experience

so excited 1Can you imagine what it would be like to feel limitless? Can you imagine altering your biology through the use of your own energy? This is within reach through meditation.

Meditation is powerful. In just minutes per day, it can release your aching heart, exhilarate your senses, make you feel loved, grounded and filled with purpose. When your thoughts, feelings and emotions are calm and neutral, you enter into a space of pure potential and possibilities.

With meditation, the physiology undergoes a change and every cell in the body is filled with more high vibrating energy. As this level of high vibration energy in the body increases, the result is joy, peace, and enthusiasm.

I am offering a complimentary daily meditation – 21 Days To Self Love Experience! I am a firm believer in giving back and striving to enrich the lives of as many people as the universe will allow. I believe in it so much that I have made it my life’s mission.

Meditation is the simplest and purest way to achieve all that you seek and helps people in all walks of life – and all it takes is your beautiful mind! It gives me great pleasure to announce this new and wonderful way I can fulfill my mission.  I am so passionate about meditation and know that it has transformed my life in so many ways, but especially in loving myself. It’s in meditation that I receive daily blessings and I wish very much for this bounty to be yours.

The 21 Days to Self Love Experience – what is it?
On Oct 8th – Oct 28th, I am doing a 20-minute daily meditation live call (replay links available) for 21 days in a row. This is totally free and all are welcome to join and be uplifted.

This is 21 days of live 20-minute meditations to get you in line with what is really important as we go about our daily tasks.

The calls begin on October 8, 2014 at 8:00pm ET and continue every day after that until October 28, 2014. 

I offer this 21 Day Meditation Experience as a service to raise consciousness in the world and finally gain freedom through the power of meditation. It’s a powerful and transformative experience where many people experience huge benefits.

If you truly commit to the full 21 days of daily meditation, you will:

  • Transform your negative self-talk and thoughts into a powerful and loving dialogue with yourself
  • Release old beliefs (i.e., I’m not good enough) and create new ones that work for you (i.e., I love me and my life!)
  • Love yourself madly
  • Enter into a state of bliss and joy everyday
  • Take that huge problem in your life and transform it
  • Release the emotional addictions to your past
  • Be an integral part of my book What Is Your Love Vibration?
  • Access to all of the replay links throughout the 21 days

Come on, it’s time to invest your energy into possibilities and a life of pure potential. From October 8th through to October 28th, every evening at 8:00 PM ET, I will be on a call with you live for a 20-minute meditation that will rock your world.

A fun way to celebrate the 21 Days to Self Love Experience:

Here’s a fun way to allow YOU to shine! Post on facebook, Instagram or twitter a selfie that shows how YOU contribute to yourself. This can be a selfie of you taking a much needed ice cream break, walking on the beach, practicing yoga, or reading a good book – the possibilities are endless!

Let me have them for 21 days using the hashtag #21dayselfielove

Make sure to follow me on twitter and like me on facebook!

Get to loving yourself and sign up for this TOTALLY FREE offer below: