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Dear Tamara,

Just like last month’s reader, I have been having relationship problems. However, I read your column about the Universal Laws, did the exercises as you suggested and I’m already getting a better understanding as to why we’ve been having so many difficulties. Therefore, I’m looking forward to reading more about the Universal Laws and doing even more homework!

Signed: Willing To Do The Work


Dearest Willing To Do The Work

Great job! I’m so happy to hear that you’re doing the exercises from last month, and as a result, getting an understanding of what’s going on in your relationship.

Welcome to the next part in this series on the Universal Laws how using them can help improve the relationship you have with yourself and your partner.

Last month, I shared that Universal Laws are principles by which everything in this Universe is governed and that when you apply and align with them, your life flows with ease and grace. The four Laws from last month are:

  • Divine Oneness – We are all One and deeply connected to everyone and everything else.
  • Vibration – Everything in this Universe vibrates and moves.
  • Action – What materializes in your physical world is a result of your actions.
  • Correspondence – As above, so below.

Let’s get the nitty gritty on the next four Universal Laws.

Understanding Universal Laws and Putting Them Into Practice:

Cause and Effect – Nothing happens by chance or outside Universal Laws.

Attention: Your every action, including thought, has a consequence. This is also referred to as the Law of the Circle. Energy is magnetized and used and always returns to its original sender. For example, if one experiences happy energy, the original source of that energy was used in a constructive way. If one experiences unhappy energy, the original source of that energy was used in a destructive way. In other words, you reap what you sow.

Compensation – Abundance is your inalienable right as the Divine Being that you are.

Awareness Exercise: On a blank piece of paper, write a list of all the things in your life that are flowing in abundance, such as gifts, money, love, blessings, etc. Next, write a list of all the things in your life that are not flowing in abundance. For the next seven days, keep track of your time spent focusing on the what’s flowing or what’s not flowing. It’s good to be aware of what you’re focusing on.

Attraction – Like attracts like.

Attention: Positive energy (high vibration frequency) attracts positive energies or outcomes. Negative energy (low vibration frequency) attracts negative energies or outcomes.

Perpetual Transmutation – Energy constantly moves into physical form.

Attention: Where your mind goes, energy goes. The images you hold in your mind will materialize. Energy follows thought and intention.

Exercise: Visualize, in detail, an outcome you’d love to experience. For example, let’s say it’s been a long time since you and your boyfriend went out dancing. For the next 30 days, commit to visualizing that you’re having the time of your life while dancing by his side. Smile as you’re envisioning the happy expression on his face because he’s with you. Feel excited as you anticipate one of the best nights of your relationship.

Stay tuned for more in next month’s column where I’ll uncover the meanings and uses of the next four Laws: Relativity; Polarity; Rhythm, and Gender. Understanding them will dramatically help any troubled relationship.

This blog is featured in Tamara’s monthly column in My Authentic Life Magazine called Talk To Tamara. Click here to see the article.

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